Why have so much hate in your heart towards someone? Hating me or the next person isn't going to make you any better...if anything it hurts you more than it hurts that person. I mean yeah when your being "hated on" it hurts but to a certain extent, because after a while it gets decrepit. You start to get use to it and then eventually you learn to move on and go about your day. If you ask me, envying someone takes alot of energy and that isn't good energy either! Like, why use good energy and turn it into bad energy? Isn't that a waste of energy? So instead of trying to make it "work" with that other person or kiss their behind, I've learned to move on! I tried the whole "forgive and forget" thing, but it just doesn't work for me...I tend to hold grudges and I hold them for a long period of time. And yes, I know holding grudges isn't Godly but neither is treating some one in a bad manner either. But at the end of the day, I always wonder "What should I do?" then I remember what my grandmother taught me: You always forgive that person no matter what, because at the end of the day they're the person who has to answer to the Lord. Just so as long as you've done your part then you're good.
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CourtanyS♥
So true...could you add a follow by email gadget please...so i can get to read every blog that you post :) x
ReplyDeleteOk sweetheart, I'm glad you mentioned that because I've been contemplating on rather or not to add one or not...but for you I will!:)
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CourtanyS♥
i hate to hold grudges too, but sometimes you just have to. because it's a way for you to get rid of the people who are only bringing you down in life.
ReplyDelete@Jesayka Yeah, I've come to realize that sometimes you have to hold a grudge although I hold grudges constantly...and yes you're right it is a way to get rid of all the negativity and those who bring you down.
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