So I woke up this morning feeling good, as usual...and nevertheless some way some how I knew something was going to try to start my morning off wrong. In a way, I guess it was my fault for "snooping" through someone else phone but hey we're very close so why would it matter...but that's not the issue. So as I continue to "snoop" through her phone I see a text message that was literally devastating to my eyes. It went a little something like this "I don't want y'all going back to her (their mother) house, I can't wait til I leave...because I have a letter I am going to give her, telling her how much she doesn't mean sh*t to me. I don't hate her...but I'll never love her" I mean what would you think? That's their mother and they treat her like a "black sheep"...but why? Knowing that they're closer to me than you guys know...it hurts me the most! I mean I don't know how to take this although, I have nothing to do with this...this is my family, immediate family at that! I just don't understand how can you hate your mother so much that you even brainwash your little siblings to feel/ be the same way you feel when it comes to her. With that being said I have a few questions for you guys.
- What would you guys have to say to the girl who sent the text message to her little sister?
- If you were in my shoes, what would you do? If you'd do anything at all.
- Would you address it to the family? Why or why not?
- What advice would you give to the younger siblings?
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It may seem difficult, but I would try and see it it could blow over. Teens often have issues with their Moms, and it's often better that you don't get caught up with the drama. I think you should let it come out by itself, or they will just be mad at you for snooping on someone else's phone. I do think you should make sure the little siblings don't become totally brainwashed. Think of how you would feel if you had your own children, and the oldest was a bad egg, who turned the rest against you. You might want to tell them how important it is to respect the people who brought them into the world.
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